You’ve finally carved out the time.
The PTO is approved. The calendar’s clear.
You even dared to dream a little…
A few precious days to reset, reconnect, and just breathe.
So one evening, you curl up on the couch—laptop open, glass of wine in hand.
You type in the magic words:
“Best places to travel this year.”
And just like that, you’re 26 tabs deep.
Each one filled with contradictory recommendations, influencer reels, or packing lists for places you didn’t even know existed.
Your wine is warm.
Your screen time report is judging you.
Your shoulders? Right back up near your ears.
You close the laptop. Again.
Trip: unbooked.
Rest: postponed.
Welcome to Travel Decision Fatigue
✨ You’re not indecisive.
✨ You’re just tired of making all the decisions.
Every day demands so much from your brain:
“What’s for dinner?”
“How should I phrase that email?”
“When is that appointment again?”
So when the time comes to plan something that’s supposed to be joyful… your mind checks out.
Because you’re not just planning a vacation.
You’re trying to plan a vacation while already exhausted.
Let’s change that.
The Vacation Planning Spiral (You Know the One)
It starts simple:
“Best beach vacations.”
Then suddenly you’re comparing Hawaii to the Caribbean.
Then you’re watching a video about Icelandic hot springs.
Then TikToks of the Amalfi Coast.
Then a luxury resort in Mexico… with a two-night minimum and 300 reviews to read.
Before you know it, you’ve turned what should be a soul-filling escape…
into a part-time research project.
Sound familiar?
🌿 Start Here: “How Do I Want to Feel on This Trip?”
Forget the logistics. Forget the trends.
Picture this:
It’s day three of your trip.
You wake up slowly.
There’s soft light and silence.
A breath that comes easy.
You stretch. You smile.
You feel… like yourself again.
That’s your starting point.
Not where you want to go—but how you want to feel when you get there.
✨ Do you want restoration or adventure?
✨ To feel pampered—or reconnected to your sense of purpose?
✨ Do you crave stillness, reconnection, inspiration—or all of the above?
When you lead with feeling, clarity follows.
🧭 Filters, Not Free-for-Alls
Endless options don’t lead to better decisions. They just lead to burnout.
But the right filters?
They give your brain a break—and your plans a purpose.
Start with these three:
- Time
Do you really have 10 days—or is it closer to 6 when you count travel and recovery? Let’s make those days count. - Energy
Running on fumes? Skip the 5-city tour and consider a restorative escape that actually refuels you. - Intention
Is this a celebration? A transition? A long-overdue reboot? Let the why guide the what.
When you filter through time, energy, and intention, everything else becomes easier to say no to.
✍️ Don’t Plan Everything—Pick One Step
Trying to do it all in one sitting?
That’s a fast track to closing the laptop and walking away.
Instead, take one tiny step forward:
- Download the Travel Planning Kickstart Workbook and answer the first page
- Text your partner: “What’s one word you want this trip to feel like?”
- Close every browser tab that doesn’t match your ideal vibe
- Or book a complimentary consultation and let me take it from here
✨ Progress over perfection. Always.
🌅 Picture the ROI of Travel That Actually Feels Good
Now imagine this:
It’s your last night away.
The sky is lavender and gold.
You’re barefoot, drink in hand, the breeze warm against your skin.
You’re not thinking about email.
You’re not checking the itinerary.
You’re thinking:
“This was exactly what I needed.”
Because this trip wasn’t just a break.
It was a reset.
A return to yourself.
✨ You planned with intention, not pressure.
✨ You filtered instead of forcing.
✨ And you made one powerful decision: to do it differently this time.
💡 Final Thought: You’re Not Supposed to Do This Alone
You’re strategic. Capable. Resourceful.
But this?
This doesn’t have to be your next project.
Planning your vacation doesn’t have to feel like another job.
It can be a gift, one that starts with giving yourself permission to ask for help.
✨ You don’t need all the options.
✨ You just need the right one.
✨ And you’re allowed to hand the logistics to someone who lives for this.
Let that be your first smart step.
Ready to feel the difference?
📓 Download the Travel Planning Kickstart Workbook to get your thoughts on paper and start planning with clarity.
📅 Or book your complimentary consultation and I’ll help you turn the overwhelm into ease.
Because there’s a better way to plan your next getaway… and it starts right here!
